Pride only leads to arguments, but those who take advice are wise. Prov.
13:10 (NCV)
What happens when an irresistible force meets an immovable object? I don’t
know the answer to that riddle, except to observe that it is bound to lead
to a mighty conflict.
What happens when two know-it-alls engage in a conversation? It can be about
anything from the weather to world history to sports to religion. There can
only be one outcome: an argument!
Think about the arguments you have had. If they are too numerous to get a
grasp on, just think about the last one. Ask yourself this question (and
answer honestly, since there is no point in lying to yourself, anyway):
“What role did pride play in the argument?”
Pride inevitably leads us to conflict because:
1. We refuse to consider the possibility that we may be wrong;
2. We think too highly of our own opinions and too lowly of anyone’s opinion
that does not support our own;
3. We become more interested in finding evidence that supports our own
beliefs than arriving at the truth;
4. We not only want to be right, we want to be ACKNOWLEDGED as being right;
5. Since we already know that we know everything, we don’t need input from
anyone else.
Pride separates friends. Pride shuts out the views of others. Pride stunts
growth.
You can have a heart filled with pride, or you can have a teachable spirit.
But you can’t have both. Which do you have? Which do you desire?
A Prayer For Today: “Father, Please help me to empty myself of foolish
pride. Help me to value others. Give me a teachable spirit. Give me a tender
heart. Help me to grow. In Jesus’ name. Amen.”

